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Post by betty31boop on Aug 5, 2005 22:10:26 GMT -5
I think that I may have to leave my soul mate behind. I've been with my husband for 14 years and I'm 32. My husband continues to make the same financial mistakes. He blows his money on Alcohol and fake friends. I've been such a solid substance in his life but, I had enough. I feel really bad because without me I think that he will do worst. I have to hold my head up and make the right choice. I know that if I stay he will continue to be handicap to society.
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Post by LIFE AND DEATH on Aug 5, 2005 22:52:44 GMT -5
THIS IS DEEP. WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO THE MATTERS OF THE HEART IT IS ALWAYS HARD TO GIVE ANOTHER ADVICE. YOU HAVE TO WEIGH THE PROS AND CONS INVOLVED IN A SUCH VERY TOUCHY SUBJECT AS THIS. I THINK IF YOU FIND YOURSELF STILL NEEDING TO SEPERATE IN ORDER TO GET YOUR POINT ACROSS THEN DO SO, BUT AT THE SAME TIME DO IT IN A PRODUCTIVE WAY. A MAN IN ORDER TO BE STRONG NEEDS A STRONG WOMEN. SHOW HIM WHATS AT STAKE, SHOW HIM WHAT IT IS HE CAN LOSE, BUT AT THE SAME TIME LET HIM KNOW THAT IT ISNT THE FINAL SOLUTION. TELL HIM THAT IF HE DOESNT GET HELP THAT YOU WILL LEAVE , IF HE DOESNT SHAPE UP DO WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO. THE FACT THAT YOU HAVE CHILDREN TOGETHER MAKES IT MORE TOUCHY, YOU DONT WANT TO HURT THEM BUT YOU ALSO DONT WANT THEM TO FOLLOW SUCH A BAD EXAMPLE AS THIS. I HOPE I WAS SOME WHAT HELPFUL.
ONE THING I WANT YOU TO DO IS WHAT EVER DECISCION YOU LAND ON MAKE SURE YOU STICK WITH IT.
GOOD LUCK
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