Post by LIFE AND DEATH on Aug 11, 2005 10:04:28 GMT -5
The world that we live in has lost site of what it took to raise Great Men and Great Women. With very big shifts in our value systems we find ourselves lost.
The type of lost Im talking about is the loss of Our roles in the world .
We now see so many single parents, abandoned children, and disfunctional homes and it has become a way of life. the only role that is exsistent in our world is survival.
A woman is broken down in2 several key roles:
Wife
Mother
Educator
Lover
(so much more to mention)
Understood that there are several reasons that these roles which once stood side by side now stand alone. Due to the growing absence of fathers. Which increasing the need for woman to seek imployment. That then reduced her presence in the home and in the lives of her childern.Who now is missing the 2 key individuals in their lives. Individuals that should be there to give them the modle of the way life should be. They are then raised by the Universal baby-sitter who as we all know is now a mirror image of Soddom and Gamorah in a tube. They are now lost making kids that will suffer a worser fate.
There are some key role for men as well but we have lost site of them. Just like the plight of the woman men should have one also. (well at least black men should). We suffer from a disease that was injected into us during the time of slavery. Where black men were used to breeed. In some instances brought from plantation to plantation for that purpouse alone. So with out defending it I can see why its so easy for a man to get up and leave. I just dont understand why a man would want 2. Our absence has been catastrophic. The cause for our societal breakdown.
This is not a strike at you strong Independant Woman Hardworking single Mothers and Grandmothers.U who have stepped up and kept what little strength we have going.
You dont need a man to do sh!t for you but atleast keep in mind that if he steps up to help meet him halfway.
A womans place is in the home. A mans place is in the workplace.
We need to give our children structure and it takes two. We need to show them what a home should be like. How it should be Unified Clean Organized Controled and Above all Happy. Men you should show your daughters what a good hard working man looks like. You should be teaching your sons the same thing.
Unify the black family and Questions like what role should we play wouldnt be asked.
i may have said some things that might offend some of you but look at the truth in my words not at the words themselves.
The type of lost Im talking about is the loss of Our roles in the world .
We now see so many single parents, abandoned children, and disfunctional homes and it has become a way of life. the only role that is exsistent in our world is survival.
A woman is broken down in2 several key roles:
Wife
Mother
Educator
Lover
(so much more to mention)
Understood that there are several reasons that these roles which once stood side by side now stand alone. Due to the growing absence of fathers. Which increasing the need for woman to seek imployment. That then reduced her presence in the home and in the lives of her childern.Who now is missing the 2 key individuals in their lives. Individuals that should be there to give them the modle of the way life should be. They are then raised by the Universal baby-sitter who as we all know is now a mirror image of Soddom and Gamorah in a tube. They are now lost making kids that will suffer a worser fate.
There are some key role for men as well but we have lost site of them. Just like the plight of the woman men should have one also. (well at least black men should). We suffer from a disease that was injected into us during the time of slavery. Where black men were used to breeed. In some instances brought from plantation to plantation for that purpouse alone. So with out defending it I can see why its so easy for a man to get up and leave. I just dont understand why a man would want 2. Our absence has been catastrophic. The cause for our societal breakdown.
This is not a strike at you strong Independant Woman Hardworking single Mothers and Grandmothers.U who have stepped up and kept what little strength we have going.
You dont need a man to do sh!t for you but atleast keep in mind that if he steps up to help meet him halfway.
A womans place is in the home. A mans place is in the workplace.
We need to give our children structure and it takes two. We need to show them what a home should be like. How it should be Unified Clean Organized Controled and Above all Happy. Men you should show your daughters what a good hard working man looks like. You should be teaching your sons the same thing.
Unify the black family and Questions like what role should we play wouldnt be asked.
i may have said some things that might offend some of you but look at the truth in my words not at the words themselves.